Las Vegas never disappoints — and this March was no exception. From intimate meet-and-greets to larger panel discussions, the energy this year was unlike anything I've experienced before.
The Highlights
This trip wasn't just about appearances. It was about connection. Some of the most meaningful moments happened off-stage:
- A 15-minute conversation with a woman who drove four hours to tell me my podcast changed her marriage
- A packed Q&A session where the audience asked the kinds of questions most people are afraid to say out loud
- Late-night talks with fellow creators about where this industry is headed
"The best events aren't the ones with the biggest crowds. They're the ones where people feel safe enough to be honest."
What I Learned
Every tour stop teaches me something. Vegas reminded me of three things:
- People are hungry for real conversation — not polished sound bites, but raw, honest dialogue about intimacy, identity, and desire.
- Community matters more than content — the connections people make with each other at these events are just as valuable as anything I can offer from a stage.
- Showing up is the work — sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is simply be present and available.
Behind the Scenes
What you don't see on social media: the 5 AM alarm calls, the voice that's half-gone by day three, the room service dinners eaten cross-legged on the bed while answering DMs. Touring is glamorous in theory and a grind in practice.
But it's worth it. Every single time.
What's Next
The tour continues with Exxxotica Chicago in April and Exxxotica New Jersey in October. Both events will feature:
- Live signings and photo opportunities
- Panel discussions on relationships, confidence, and wellness
- Exclusive merch available only at the booth
Check the full tour schedule for dates and details. If you're in the area, come say hello — these events are always better when familiar faces show up.
Thank You
To everyone who came out in Vegas — thank you. Your stories, your questions, your willingness to be vulnerable in a room full of strangers — that's what makes this work meaningful.
See you on the road.